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Showing posts with label My 2017 Boy. Show all posts

Baby Boy Turns 3

7/1/2020



My baby boy turned 3 this week! 


My husband had the day off work so we were all able to celebrate together as a family. 


We visited the nearby state park and swam together in the lake.


We enjoyed the birthday boy's favorite foods, like cinnamon rolls and Pop Tarts and Pizza Hut pizza!





Of course, there were gifts to open and enjoy. He loves the doodle pads, beach toys, cars and trucks, and marble run.



God even arranged a few special surprises, like this deer that walked through our backyard and then a rainbow too.

Happy birthday, Mystery! 
You are full of energy and independence. 
You are so willing to jump in and help with anything. 
We are so glad you are part of our family!

My Littles

2/10/2020


My 3 little ones keep my life very full these days.
I am very thankful that the moments of all 3 of them playing together in harmony are becoming more commonplace! 

The princess (age 6). 
The goofball dreamer (age 4).
The "I just want to do whatever the big kids do" kid (age 2).

Sure do love them and am thankful God blessed our family with them. Never a dull (or quiet) moment around here! :-)

Birthday Traditions

7/5/2019

We celebrated our littlest boy turning 2 last weekend. He is the first in our family to celebrate a birthday in 2019. The rest of us all have birthdays between now and Christmas. 


We are making an intentional shift in our birthday traditions this year. Here's the reason why. Bear with me as it will seem that I'm shifting gears here, from birthdays to Christmas traditions.

We have seen a disturbing pattern in our family over the last few years related to Christmas. What is generally considered to be a season of giving has turned inward, with the focus on getting/receiving. Our kids, like so many others who live in abundance and privilege, make lists of what they want and have high hopes of what they will receive. In essence, Christmas was all about them and what they would get, thus turning it into a functional 2nd birthday that happens each year. More gifts for them. 

Now we know that we are somewhat to blame for this confusion. We have not historically made a really big deal about birthdays, but Christmas is a big deal. We have spent more money on our kids at Christmas than at birthdays. We have perpetuated the emphasis on gifts for everyone at Christmastime. We have bought into the consumer-driven culture and let the focus drift from the real meaning of Christmas. 


BUT GOD used some friends recently to present a way to shift our focus, as this couple simply described their birthday traditions. They make a REALLY BIG deal out of birthdays. They go all out. They buy big gifts. They decorate, a lot... with streamers and balloons. They include elements of praising God for the uniqueness of the birthday boy or girl. 


And by making birthdays a really big deal, they can then make Jesus' birthday a really big deal too... and the focus stays on Jesus!

If a birthday is a time to celebrate the birthday celebrant... with decorations, with special desserts, with gifts for that person, with special poems/speeches/pictures we created with that birthday person in mind... then all of this can easily carry over to Christmas as Jesus' birthday and keep the focus on Him, where it belongs! 

So this shift in how we celebrate birthdays all year long will affect how we celebrate Christmas this year. There will not be gifts for our individual children from us. There will be a focus of what we can give to Jesus for His birthday, which will lead to some great discussions of what Jesus really wants for His birthday (things like our hearts, our love and obedience, our sacrificing for others and thinking of others instead of ourselves, etc). All of the decorations, the special foods, the time and energy that goes in to preparing for Christmas as Jesus' birthday will all reinforce the idea that birthdays are super special time to celebrate the birthday person. 


So we have the rest of our family birthdays to celebrate yet this year, all between now and Christmas. I'm excited about this! I'm excited because it is encouraging to hear family members recognize one another's contributions to the rest of the family and to voice them (or draw them). I'm excited to help cultivate a sense of generosity in the kids as they think about buying a gift for their sibling's birthday. I love their excitement over helping decorate or helping pick out the perfect balloon for their sibling. I love walking down memory lane together, sharing memorable moments with one another as we flip through pictures of the last year. 

Traditions.
I think I've undervalued traditions. 
I am looking ahead with great intentionality. 

Baby Boy's Birthday Party

7/3/2019


We celebrated our littlest boy's 2nd birthday last weekend. What a fun time to just celebrate his life together as a family!


Each of his siblings had purchased a gift for him. He received a flashlight toy, Mr Potato Head, a racecar and a rubber ducky. Mom and Dad gave him a battery-operated bubble blower - that makes for a very slippery kitchen floor but is great fun outside :-) - and a set of bowling pins and balls and finally a t-shirt that says I'M 2! Daddy also made him a special crown to wear for his birthday. 

Each family member also created something for him. Some wrote down some special memories of this past year. Some drew a picture, made a card, wrote an acrostic with his name or wrote out a prayer for him. 


We also made a trip to the nearest Build-a-Bear Workshop. I recently learned of their "Buy Your Age" birthday bear. So we were able to buy a bear for only $2. We spent a few more dollars on minimal accessories and birthday boy now has his own stuffed bear.



The birthday boy got to choose what food to eat on his birthday. We enjoyed cinnamon rolls and scrambled eggs for breakfast. Morning snack was popcorn and pretzels. Lunch was pizza. Afternoon snack was birthday cupcakes. Supper was Burger King fries and chicken nuggets. 


We also Skyped with Grandma K in Wisconsin, so she could watch birthday boy open the gifts she had mailed here.

A very fun birthday celebration, as we thank God for the gift of this little boy. Families are a blessing.
"God sets the lonely in families" (Psalm 68:6) We're thankful for the fun, the challenges, the uniqueness that this little boy brings into our lives. 

Happy 2nd Birthday, my son!

Baby Boy Turns 2

6/28/2019

This daring little boy is turning 2! 


He's a climber, that's for sure. He can often be found standing up on stools, chairs, tables, and desks and reaching as high as he is able, to seek out some treasure (like a pen, off-limit toys, etc).


He adores his siblings. Anything the older ones are doing, he is following closely in their footsteps.


Drumming with the others and getting instructions from Mr. Music, 3-year-old brother.


Following big brothers around at the playground.


Most of the time the big brothers don't really like this little shadow. And yet there is the occasional moment when they do play together nicely. Here they were playing spaceship - each having their own bunk-bed in the spaceship while on the way to the moon. Creative!


Being dressed up by big sisters... it's all part of that youngest child role! :-)


Piggy back rides from Daddy are his favorite way to go to upstairs or on walks in the neighborhood.


This remains one of my favorite pictures of this baby boy. 
So sweet!

We're all looking forward to celebrating this weekend!

Happy birthday, Mystery! 

Baby Boy at 15 Months

10/26/2018


This little guy is over 15 months old now! He's a lot of fun, getting around by fast crawling or slow toddling. He sleeps so well - 12 hours at night, plus two daytime naps. 


He's full of smiles and typical toddler curiosity. He climbs into baskets and onto all chairs or couches now.


He got up to the kitchen table, found a bowl of yogurt and helped himself. He's at the stage of getting into plenty of mischief in just a minute or two of having my back turned.


He's got long hair, with loose curls. It's especially curly when wet after a bath. I suspect we'll cut it soon. I'll miss those curls. His hair has more curl and wave than any of my other kids have had.


My oldest daughter has fun styling his hair. Oh, the joys of having an older sister to give you your first ponytail and then capture it forever with a photo. :-)

We love you, little man!

Baby Boy at Age 1

8/8/2018


This little boy is about 13 months old. 


In this picture, he looks like he's dreaming of a far off place.


He was all smiles for his 1-year photoshoot. He had a fun time playing with the props and crawling all around the studio.



We took a few shots of him with older sister, which all turned out wonderful. 


My oldest with my youngest.


Such sweethearts!

Happy 1st Birthday

6/29/2018

Happy 1st Birthday to my littlest man!


This first year has flown by!



This boy is very mobile.



He crawls, he toddles, he walks along the furniture. 


He talks, using words like mama, dada, ba (for ball) and mo (for more) and eeee (for peek when playing peek a boo).



Peek a boo is a favorite game.




First time swinging - loved it!



Here he is enjoying some new birthday toys. 

This boy sleeps all night, from 6 pm to 6 am. 
He eats like a champ, often times out-eating his 2-year-old brother. He likes all kinds of baby foods and wants to try bites of anything that others are eating.

He remains a rather relaxed baby. He is happy to play on his own. He rarely cries. He goes with the flow - in our busy household with many other needs, this is good! He crawls up to Mama when he's either hungry or needs a diaper change. Otherwise, he's happy to just explore the house and toys and kitchen cabinets!

Happy 1st birthday, buddy!

Baby Boy Turns 11 Months

5/31/2018


This little boy is growing quickly. He's 11 months old now! He has some curl in his hair. He is the only one of our children so far that has the curl that is characteristic of my husband's side of the family.


To celebrate, he climbed up 3 stairs all by himself! Aaahh!


He has gotten his 8th tooth now. He chews on everything. And he wears an amber necklace that is supposed to help with the pain associated with teething.


He loves to wave at people. And he loves his daddy!

Happy 11 months, Little Mister!